Thursday, 6 August 2020


[07/08/20, 8:16:14 AM]  2 and 4 .

[07/08/20, 8:17:33 AM] I think go with flow

[07/08/20, 8:18:13 AM] For that do ur best and leave the rest to the god . Whatever he does, he does for good .

[07/08/20, 8:18:51 AM] What u desire happens is good . WhAt u don’t desire happens is better as that has been desired by god for u .

[07/08/20, 8:19:10 AM] Karma karte jao fal ki iccha na karo . Detachment is key to happiness.

[07/08/20, 8:19:51 AM]  Control only what u can control . U can’t control others actions . It’s waste of time and energy and leads to worry and disappointment leading to unhappiness.

[07/08/20, 8:21:25 AM] Never get influenced - by what others say .

Kuch to log kahenge logo ka kaam kahna .

Saturday, 1 August 2020

*4 Hormones* which determine a *human's happiness.*  Worth reading

As I sat in the park *after* my *morning walk,*
My wife came and slumped next to me.
*She had completed* her 30-minute jog. *We chatted* for a while. She said *she is not happy* in life. I looked up at her sheer disbelief since she seemed to have the best of everything in life.
*"Why do you think so?"*
"I don't know. Everyone tells I have everything needed, *but I am not happy.*
"Then I questioned myself, *am I happy?  "No,"* was my inner voice reply.
Now, that was an *eye-opener for me.*
I began my quest to *understand the real cause* of my *unhappiness,*
I couldn't find one.

I dug deeper, *read articles,* spoke to life coaches but nothing made sense.
*At last my doctor* friend gave me the answer which put all my questions and doubts to rest.
*I implemented* those and will say I am *a lot happier person.*

She said, *there are four hormones* which determine a *human's happiness -*
1. *Endorphins,*
2. *Dopamine,*
3. *Serotonin,*
and
4. *Oxytocin.*
It is important we *understand these hormones,*
as we *need all four* of them *to stay happy.*

Let's look at the *first hormone* the *Endorphins.*
*When we exercise, the body releases Endorphins.*
This hormone helps the body cope with the pain of exercising. We then *enjoy exercising* because these Endorphins will make us happy.
*Laughter is* another good way of *generating Endorphins.*
We need to spend *30 minutes exercising* every day, read or *watch funny stuff* to get our day's dose of Endorphins.

*The second hormone is Dopamine.*
In our journey of life, we accomplish many *little and big tasks, it releases* various levels of *Dopamine.*
*When we get appreciated for our work at the office or at home,* we feel accomplished and good, that is *because it releases Dopamine.*
This also explains *why* most *housewives* are *unhappy* since they *rarely* get *acknowledged* or appreciated *for their work.* Once, we join work, we *buy* a car, a house, the latest gadgets, a *new house* so forth. In each instance, it *releases Dopamine* and we become happy.
Now, do we realize why we become happy when we shop?

*The third hormone Serotonin* is released when we *act in a way that benefits others.*
When we transcend ourselves and give back to others or *to nature or to the society, it releases Serotonin.* Even,
providing useful information on the internet like *writing information* blogs, answering peoples questions on Quora or *Facebook groups will generate Serotonin.*
That is *because* we will use our *precious time to help other* people via our answers or articles.

*The final hormone is Oxytocin,*
is released *when* we become *close to other human* beings.
When we *hug our friends* or family *Oxytocin is released.*
The *"Jadoo Ki Jhappi"* from Munnabhai *does really work.*
Similarly, when we *shake hands* or put our *arms around* someone's shoulders, various amounts of *Oxytocin is released.*

So, it is simple, we have to *exercise every day* to get *Endorphins,*
we have to *accomplish* little *goals* and get *Dopamine,*
we *need to* be *nice* to others to *get  Serotonin* and
finally *hug our kids,*
friends, and families to *get Oxytocin* and we will *be happy.*
*When we are happy, we can deal* with our challenges and *problems better.*

Now, we can understand *why we need to hug a child who has a bad mood.*

So to.
*make your child* more and more *happy* day by day ...

1. *Motivate him to play* on the ground
*-Endorphins*

2. *Appreciate your child* for his small big achievements
*-Dopamine*

3. *inculcate sharing* habit through you to your child
*-Serotonin*

4. *Hug* your child
*-Oxytocin*

*Have a Happy Life*.

 🙏🏻🙏🏻

*Donot Miss This Article...*

A very interesting read!!

It is said in the texts that 80% of the fighting male population of the civilization was wiped out in the eighteen days Mahabharata war.

Sanjay, at the end of the war went to the spot where the greatest war took place; Kurukshetra.

He looked around and wondered if the war really happened, if the ground beneath him had soaked all that blood, if the great Pandavas and Krishna stood where he stood.

“You will never know the truth about that!” said an aging soft voice.

Sanjay turned around to find an Old man in saffron robes appearing out of a column of dust.

“I know you are here to find out about the Kurukshetra war, but *you cannot know about that war till you know what the real war is about*.” the Old man said enigmatically.

“What do you mean?”

*The Mahabharata is an Epic, a ballad, perhaps a reality, but definitely a philosophy*.

The Old man smiled luring Sanjay into more questions.

“Can you tell me what the philosophy is then?”
Sanjay requested.

Sure, began the Old man.

*The Pandavas are nothing but your five senses*,
sight,
smell,
taste,
touch
and sound...,

and do you know what the *Kauravas* are?
 he asked narrowing his eyes.

 *The Kauravas are the hundred vices that attack your senses everyday but you can fight them*... and do you know how?

Sanjay shook his head again.

“When Krishna rides your chariot!”

The Old man smiled brighter and Sanjay gasped at that gem of insight.

*Krishna is your inner voice, your soul, your guiding light and if you let your life in his hands you have nothing to worry*.

Sanjay was stupefied but came around quickly with another question.

“Then *why are Dronacharya and Bhishma fighting for the Kauravas, if they are vices*?”

The Old man nodded, sadder for the question.

It just means that as you grow up, your perception of your elders change. *The elders who you thought were perfect in your growing up years are not all that perfect. They have faults. And one day you will have to decide if they are for your good or your bad.  Then you may also realize that you may have to fight them for the good. It is the hardest part of growing up and that is why the Geeta is important*.

Sanjay slumped down on the ground, not because he was tired but because he could understand and was struck by  the enormity of it all.

 *What about Karna*? he whispered.

“Ah!” said the Old man. “You have saved the best for last. *Karna is the brother to your senses, he is desire, he is a part of you but stands with the vices. He feels wronged and makes excuses for being with the vices as your desire does all the time.*

 *Does your desire not give you excuses to embrace vices*?”

Sanjay nodded silently. He looked at the ground, consumed with a million thoughts, trying to put everything together and then when he looked up the Old man was gone....
disappeared in the column of dust.........leaving behind the great philosophy of Life!

A very interesting read!!

It is said in the texts that 80% of the fighting male population of the civilization was wiped out in the eighteen days Mahabharata war.

Sanjay, at the end of the war went to the spot where the greatest war took place; Kurukshetra.

He looked around and wondered if the war really happened, if the ground beneath him had soaked all that blood, if the great Pandavas and Krishna stood where he stood.

“You will never know the truth about that!” said an aging soft voice.

Sanjay turned around to find an Old man in saffron robes appearing out of a column of dust.

“I know you are here to find out about the Kurukshetra war, but *you cannot know about that war till you know what the real war is about*.” the Old man said enigmatically.

“What do you mean?”

*The Mahabharata is an Epic, a ballad, perhaps a reality, but definitely a philosophy*.

The Old man smiled luring Sanjay into more questions.

“Can you tell me what the philosophy is then?”
Sanjay requested.

Sure, began the Old man.

*The Pandavas are nothing but your five senses*,
sight,
smell,
taste,
touch
and sound...,

and do you know what the *Kauravas* are?
 he asked narrowing his eyes.

 *The Kauravas are the hundred vices that attack your senses everyday but you can fight them*... and do you know how?

Sanjay shook his head again.

“When Krishna rides your chariot!”

The Old man smiled brighter and Sanjay gasped at that gem of insight.

*Krishna is your inner voice, your soul, your guiding light and if you let your life in his hands you have nothing to worry*.

Sanjay was stupefied but came around quickly with another question.

“Then *why are Dronacharya and Bhishma fighting for the Kauravas, if they are vices*?”

The Old man nodded, sadder for the question.

It just means that as you grow up, your perception of your elders change. *The elders who you thought were perfect in your growing up years are not all that perfect. They have faults. And one day you will have to decide if they are for your good or your bad.  Then you may also realize that you may have to fight them for the good. It is the hardest part of growing up and that is why the Geeta is important*.

Sanjay slumped down on the ground, not because he was tired but because he could understand and was struck by  the enormity of it all.

 *What about Karna*? he whispered.

“Ah!” said the Old man. “You have saved the best for last. *Karna is the brother to your senses, he is desire, he is a part of you but stands with the vices. He feels wronged and makes excuses for being with the vices as your desire does all the time.*

 *Does your desire not give you excuses to embrace vices*?”

Sanjay nodded silently. He looked at the ground, consumed with a million thoughts, trying to put everything together and then when he looked up the Old man was gone....
disappeared in the column of dust.........leaving behind the great philosophy of Life!

Monday, 12 March 2018

कुछ दिनों से बहुत बिजी चल रहा हूं लगातार कुछ ना कुछ आ रहा है पहले होली अच्छा निकाला उसके बाद में जॉइंट प्रेसिडेंट ऑफ प्राइम मिनिस्टर की वजह मोदी जी और पेट्रोल की रेट और बड़ी इंटरेस्टिंग बजे प्राइस में काफी कुछ सीखने को मिला और एक चीज जो मैंने सीखी कि जो किताब में मैक्रॉन को नहीं दे पाया वह किताब मैंने SP जी की वजह से नहीं दी इसलिए कि यदि आपकी नियत अच्छी है आपको वह कार्य कर देना चाहिए ऐसे ही कहते हैं जब भी आपकी नियत अच्छी हो कि कुछ हो ही जाएगा माननीय प्रधानमंत्री जी को मैंने स्मार्ट पुलिस ने गिफ्ट किया है और अब अच्छा लग रहा है कि प्रतापगढ़ जा रहा हूं अपनी वाइफ और बच्चे को लेने के लिए विंध्याचल माता हमेशा कृपा बनाए रखें हम सभी के ऊपर में बहुत मैंने कोशिश की कि इसमें अच्छा एक संदेश जाए और धीरे-धीरे मैं अपने रास्ते पढ़ रहा हूं अब मुझे फ़िक्की और इसकी तैयारी करनी है प्रेज़ेंटेशन बनाने हैं प्रेजेंटेशन शिर्डी करने आज का टारगेट यही है कि जितनी भी कंपटीशन में मेरी एंट्री जानी है आज ही मैं एंट्री भेज दूंगा

Sunday, 31 December 2017

1 jan 2018

आज से यह मेरी डेली डायरी शुरू हो रही है जनवरी 2018 साल का पहला दिन मैंने डिसाइड किया है कि आज से मैं अपनी डेली डायरी रोज रोज लिखूंगा इस डेली डायरी में मैं बताऊंगा कि कल मैंने क्या किया और आगे मैं क्या करने जा रहा हूं आज मैं क्या करने जा रहा हूं बहुत जरूरी पिछले साल बड़ा अच्छा रहा पिछले साल में बनारस में पोस्टेड था और अप्रैल में आफ्टर द चुनाव मुझे मौका मिला मिर्जापुर पोस्टिंग का और आते ही साथ मां विंध्यवासिनी का दर्शन कर कर काम शुरु किया काम में काफी कुछ सीखा पूरे साल बाद कुछ अच्छे इंसिडेंट हुआ कुछ बड़े कैसे हुए जिससे मुझे क्राइम के बारे में समझ में मत मिली हमारे एडमिन जो बोलते हैं शरीर मन और आत्मा इन तीनों को लोग स्प्रे मैंने थोड़ी प्रोग्रेस प्राप्त की है शरीर में सिक्स पैक की तरफ में बढ़ रहा हूं अब मैं जा रहा हूं कि मेरी बॉडी और भी ताकतवर हो और मैं शिक्षक की तरफ जाऊं इसलिए को स्वस्थ रहो जितना ज्यादा स्वस्थ हो सकता है उतना ज्यादा स्वस्थ दूसरा गोल मेरा कैरियर का था जिसका था था जिसका था था और मुझे लग रहा है कि हम अच्छा करेंगे इस साल मेरा मन है की स्मार्ट पुलिस पुलिस पर मैं जाऊंगा प्रोफेशनल में मेरा नाम नाम भी काफी काफी नाम भी काफी काफी हो गया है और मुझे अच्छा लग रहा है कल मैंने देखा कि किस तरीके से कराया जाए प्रोग्राम अब मेरा अगला काम मेरा परिवार बढ़ गया काशी आ गई और मेडिटेशन की तरफ से भी मैं जाऊंगा मेरा अपना काम है कि मैं सुबह इस रात का मेरे इस साल का मेरा रिजर्वेशन है कि मैं रोज रात को 11:00 बजे सो जाऊंगा और सुबह 5:00 बजे उठ जाऊंगा यही मेरा नए साल का रिजोल्यूशन है दोपहर के टाइम पर मुझे अपना जो टाइम है वह योग निद्रा में बताना है और मेरा जो टाइम है वह मेरी एप्पल वॉच पर आता रहता है कि मेरा रिमाइंडर आता रहता है कि मुझे अब क्या करना है और मैं कोशिश करूंगा मेरी लाइफ इस तरीके से बीते

Tuesday, 3 October 2017

I am scared from inside after what happened with the phone call at Meerut and I decided for the rest of my life with that I'm taking my lessons I am also come to know that there are one person who is escorting on my name in Bijapur so I learnt my lesson very clearly in the life but I have I don't have to go overboard and that has only just a job I don't have to trust people at the very outset. Today I woke up at six and I am now very collagen and yesterday I also went to Ireland. When I went to Ankita I had already spent around 9:30 PM and we just left in the morning at a get up and there was a huge I am I to come back when I came back I immediately rushed to words the tehsildar was one side is this in the bus I finish the work there and another was awesome shot me that I had on then I came back and then there was a inauguration function of a Tata finally I went to the training session of Manoj Dubey and as because I can travel to movie Judwaa two with him and that's of the day ended with today my targets are again those five targets I have and I'll try to finish goes on and I also want to go to Varanasi to my wife she's going to come tomorrow and if I can accompany her that very good